My Cunt My Cunt My Cunt
October 4th 2006 02:12
The school girls at the train station roared with delight at what they found when they repeatedly yelled out “Mike Hunt.” Onlookers frowned and looked away either as a sign of disapproval, or, as in my case, to resist bursting into laughter themselves.
The strength of the word cunt lies in it’s lack of synonyms and the fact that there is only one way to say it. My over-reliance on it is terrible, but there is no other that gives that same punch. No other with such a sharp sound. No other that gets the same reaction. No other with such irresistible childish naughtiness. Another fantastic feature is it’s versatility – someone can act “cuntish” or be “a real cunt;” if my friend tells me her car broke down I can say “what a cunt!” and if you take to rhyming sang why not use a sentence like “he’s a bit of a James Blunt”?
Many have inquired as to why the most barbaric and filthy English word is slang for that part of a woman’s body that defines her womanhood – a part of her body where we all came from in the first place.
But attitudes to the powerful expression are changing, and the taboo is shifting. Women are using it more and more, and some say it’s an act of rebellion against the strict patriarchal system that makes it such an insulting word in the first place. The idea is that by overtly using it they can break down its impact (like the gay community reclaiming ‘queer’, lesbians using ‘dyke’ or African-Americans using ‘nigger’). Radical
The strength of the word cunt lies in it’s lack of synonyms and the fact that there is only one way to say it. My over-reliance on it is terrible, but there is no other that gives that same punch. No other with such a sharp sound. No other that gets the same reaction. No other with such irresistible childish naughtiness. Another fantastic feature is it’s versatility – someone can act “cuntish” or be “a real cunt;” if my friend tells me her car broke down I can say “what a cunt!” and if you take to rhyming sang why not use a sentence like “he’s a bit of a James Blunt”?
Many have inquired as to why the most barbaric and filthy English word is slang for that part of a woman’s body that defines her womanhood – a part of her body where we all came from in the first place.
But attitudes to the powerful expression are changing, and the taboo is shifting. Women are using it more and more, and some say it’s an act of rebellion against the strict patriarchal system that makes it such an insulting word in the first place. The idea is that by overtly using it they can break down its impact (like the gay community reclaiming ‘queer’, lesbians using ‘dyke’ or African-Americans using ‘nigger’). Radical
feminists, however, have continued to try to outlaw the use of the word completely, arguing that it is an act of hostile misogyny and no woman could possibly like that fact that her genitalia should be consigned as crude, vile and ugly in a way that nothing else is.
To this one might point out that the word is actually not insulting in any literal sense, in much the same way as calling someone a 'fucker' isn’t offensive literally. But perhaps it is more complex. We all remain stupidly ill at ease with the vagina. While breasts are now so visible they’re boring, the female genitalia is mostly kept out of sight. Nobody knows what to call it – a 'fanny' belongs to a little girl, a 'pussy' to a porn star, and 'vagina' is too medical.
‘Vagina’, in fact, is especially inappropriate because, as Germaine Greer has pointed out, it refers only to a specific internal section of the genitalia, not the "fun bits". Further, she says, because it is derived from the Latin word for ‘scabbard’ (sword sheath), it is completely inappropriate: "I refuse to think of my sex as simply a receptacle for a weapon."
The trend towards the word cunt has occurred simultaneously to the trend for women going to strip clubs and consuming more pornography. It’s all part of an attitude that goes against those perceivably humourless, joyless, sexless, serious and preaching “feminists” of earlier generations. But is it a sign of liberation or are we being fooled?
Ariel Levy explored the rise of “raunch culture” in the West, and feminism’s shifting position towards it, in her recent publication Female Chauvinist Pigs. She says “only 30 years ago, our mothers were burning their bras and picketing Playboy, and suddenly we are getting breast implants and wearing the bunny logo as symbols of our liberation,” and asks how the culture has been subverted so drastically. She traces a general trend that says the feminist project has achieved so much and gone so far that women can finally join the fun: “if male chauvinist pigs were men who regarded women as pieces of meat, we would beat them at their own game and be female chauvinist pigs: women who make sex objects of other women and of ourselves.” She concludes that while women might feel they are doing something fun, liberating and rebellious, it does not mark the end of objectification or misogyny, and we must continue to fight for freedom and power on all levels.
I wonder what she would think about women using the word cunt…
To this one might point out that the word is actually not insulting in any literal sense, in much the same way as calling someone a 'fucker' isn’t offensive literally. But perhaps it is more complex. We all remain stupidly ill at ease with the vagina. While breasts are now so visible they’re boring, the female genitalia is mostly kept out of sight. Nobody knows what to call it – a 'fanny' belongs to a little girl, a 'pussy' to a porn star, and 'vagina' is too medical.
‘Vagina’, in fact, is especially inappropriate because, as Germaine Greer has pointed out, it refers only to a specific internal section of the genitalia, not the "fun bits". Further, she says, because it is derived from the Latin word for ‘scabbard’ (sword sheath), it is completely inappropriate: "I refuse to think of my sex as simply a receptacle for a weapon."
The trend towards the word cunt has occurred simultaneously to the trend for women going to strip clubs and consuming more pornography. It’s all part of an attitude that goes against those perceivably humourless, joyless, sexless, serious and preaching “feminists” of earlier generations. But is it a sign of liberation or are we being fooled?
Ariel Levy explored the rise of “raunch culture” in the West, and feminism’s shifting position towards it, in her recent publication Female Chauvinist Pigs. She says “only 30 years ago, our mothers were burning their bras and picketing Playboy, and suddenly we are getting breast implants and wearing the bunny logo as symbols of our liberation,” and asks how the culture has been subverted so drastically. She traces a general trend that says the feminist project has achieved so much and gone so far that women can finally join the fun: “if male chauvinist pigs were men who regarded women as pieces of meat, we would beat them at their own game and be female chauvinist pigs: women who make sex objects of other women and of ourselves.” She concludes that while women might feel they are doing something fun, liberating and rebellious, it does not mark the end of objectification or misogyny, and we must continue to fight for freedom and power on all levels.
I wonder what she would think about women using the word cunt…
Some more from Germaine Greer:
"In the 1970s ... I thought this word for the female genitalia shouldn't be abusive. I believed it should be an ordinary, everyday word. I tried to get people to say it, I tried to take the malice out of it. I wanted women to be able to say it. You think cunt is nasty? I'm here to tell you it is nice like black is beautiful, it is delicious, it is powerful, it is strong. It didn't work and now in a way I'm perversely pleased because it meant that it kept that power."
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Question: What German word did 19th Century senior religious Clerics seek to have banned throughout the world because the emotion it designated was so evil? Prize for the person who finds it.
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Spain01 - I love prizes but I have not idea. Looking forward to finding out ...
Cibbuano - Will using it more not dilute those connotations? I say cunt away ...
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Comment by Bryn
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Yet, 'tis strange and disconcerting that one is a word for sexual intercourse and the other is a word for a woman's genitalia - both of which are very nice things - yet are used, mostly, in a derogatory or aggressive fashion.
Language is a virus from outer space.
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the female sex.It may very well be but an arguement is required since so many women, and some of them significant are prepared to use the word. Like most words it is offensive in context. Among indigenous people it is used as common parlance not that this does not mean it is degrading to the female sex since it might be argued that the speech of disadvantaged people reflects the disadvantage.
Comment by Adrian
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"James Blunt" I learned from Dave Callan, a radio announcer on Triple J. And incidentally, he operates on a three fucks and you're out rule, and I reckon he's soft on cock, but he'll only give you one cunt before he hangs up on you.
No idea what the answer to spain01's question is. But isn't the word "fuck" German in origin? (The verb "fikken" or something?)
Comment by Bryn
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that's what I thought too ... Old German word meanign 'to strike" ...?
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PS the statement that Dave Callen will "only give you one cunt before he hangs up on you" made me chuckle
Comment by spain01
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Comment by ag
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Women are permitted to use it whenever they want although I find the over-use of it in pornos tedious. Porn is boring anyway, but that's another story. I imagine a lot of men would feel uncomfortable with a woman referring to her cunt during sex? But that's just further evidence of the ineffability of it.
Any more hints about the German word?
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Comment by The Voices in my Head
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I had to come see what all the fuss was about. I am glad I did. I understand the point of this post, and certainly do appreciate it. It is very well written. But it hasn't changed the connotation of the word for me. To be fair to you and your efforts here, nothing will.
I don't know why it repulses me. I am a very sexual being and I believe in feminism. I do not find sex to be dirty in any way, but that word makes me want to vomit. I do not see someone who uses it, regardless of their reasoning, as an intelligent person. I instantly regard them as backwoods, guttertrash, etc. It's not intentional. It is an honest reaction to the word itself. So, yes, I suppose the word is powerful, but I don't personally believe it is powerful in the way you suggest.
I think the word itself may be more appealing for use by those sorts who look down on women and now have a reason to use it in a 'legitimate' way. I have seen an example of this here on Orble, in fact, from another blogger.
I believe feminism is about striving to force men to see women as more than a framework for that which lies between their legs. I don't think the use of words like 'cunt' helps to accomplish that, just as I do not believe that African Americans have accomplished anything by using the word 'nigger' or lesbians, 'dyke'. I think it cements the discrimination of those groups.
However, again, very well written. I see why you have been nominated. Congratulations!
Voices~
Comment by ag
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VIMH - thanks for your thoughts. Your repulsion is what I'm talking about when I say the word is powerful. But it's not something intrinsic in the word - it is, as you say, the connotations it carries. And connotations can and do change over time, which I think we are seeing with the word cunt.
I'm glad you stopped by to read. I have to ask you - nominated for what?
ag
Comment by The Voices in my Head
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I can't find the link but there's a Best of Orble 2006 awards and this post was nominated as the best written.
Voices~
Comment by Ann 1
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To this day, 'My cunt ... ' remains the best post ever put on Orble. (comments section included).
Ann Onnamuss.